Relationship --- TABOO

My sister invited some of her friends came over last night for evening tea. You know, girls together always do have gossips. From movie stars to our everyday friends.

One of our friend she is about 30 and desperatly wants a rich boyfriend and will marry that man. After doing a bit research and man hunting, she finnally found a Doctor!!! But maybe because she is too desperate, she has been dumped only two month later -- two month's relationship. Due to some of her silly things what she had done.

We call this RELATIONSHIP TABOO!!!

Never tell your boy you love him, don't say how much you like him either. Only let him feel by himself. Never show him how much you care about him. Don't make him feel very safe. But build the trust. Don't live together, keep a bit distance, don't see each other too often. Distance is love. Don't mix money. When you relationship have some crisis. Don't call or contact your boy even you really want to. Don't let him feel you can't live without him, even you really can't. Give him a bit space, and he will find you. Never be hysteria. Keep cool.....

Everyone should already know this, but just hard when you are the person in that situation. It's hard to be that cool and ..........

I made the same mistake. And finnally lost my boy completely! ; ((((